things people do after they break up.

I used to be the person who types what he feels on his facebook updates. And i realize its not a good thing to do that. I learnt that the hard way. Recently ive seen some people write stuff like "I miss my ex, Im lonely now, I need you, Why did you leave me?" and so on and so forth. there are a few reasons why its a bad thing to do that. and i learnt it the hard way (Because i used to do it)

• Once you get over your ex. and you finally wana start dating, people would think that you're going to look for a rebound
• People actually delete you from their friend list because they think your status updates are annoying and they dont care jack shit abt how you

Anyways, here are some things people do when they break up

1. Turn Crazy
2. Become overly emotional
3. Spend money like crazy
4. Has the urge to be with someone of the opposite sex (or same sex?)
5. Everything reminds them of their ex. Even forks (yes, the one people use to eat)
6. Stalk the ex's facebook page
7. Lack sleep
8. Overdose of Exercise OR Eating (one or the other. Never the same time)
9. Tries to hard on everything
10. Sleep around
11. Does all the things that their ex wont let them do when they were together, even if they know that its stupid to do it. Like consuming drugs
12. Pray a lot
13. Travel
14. Tries overly too much to impress the ex
15. Blocks the ex from their facebook page.
16. Puts away all the things that reminds them of the ex in a small box and tuck it away somewhere not visible OR throw all of it away OR dumps all of it back to the ex
17. when you finally meet someone new, you always seem to compare them with your ex. (He/She never did this before, S/he is exactly the same as my ex, This girl is way better then the ex) Dont kid, you know you do this without letting people know.
18. You question yourself whether you are really over him/her.
19. You question yourself, How do you get over someone?
20. You play a lot of video games
21. You seem to find new friends because your ex was the only person you spent your time with when you were together and you are left with jack shit

But in the end you find it deep inside you, you just want him/her to be happy. No matter who they end up with and when you see their smiles. You somehow find it in your heart to say "hey, She really is happy and im glad she is". You tried your best. And if he/she cant see that, trust me, they are not for you. Even if you feel deep down inside you and say "She was the one". Someone else is out there waiting for you.

This blog post is dedicated to the heartbroken people. Stay strong. Dont go and kill yourself. And dont do drugs. You might seem to think it is a good way to relief your heart ache. But its not. Trust me. You'll end up regretting it.

Life is too short for you to waste it on that. Be happy.

Cheer up you hopeless romantics out there. If you are truly able to love someone like you loved your ex. Someone will eventually do the same thing to you. And make sure that person receives the same thing again.

Cheers,

Tib

songs and rambles

I love listening to songs. Especially those which have lyrics that actually make sense.

I mean songs nowadays are mostly about partying, sex, pussies, etc. You catch my drift. If you dont realize it. take example, Far East Movemont, Lady Gaga, Ke$ha, Black Eyed Peas and most hip hop songs. Take a good listen and its all songs about getting drunk.

Anyways, back to songs that actually mean something. Ever felt that you are feeling down? Suddenly a song plays in your mind and you say "hey, thats exactly me" and you start to fall in love with that song even though its just a mediocre song. Well i have, countless of times.

Sometimes i feel songs can comfort people when they are sad. Make people smile and make them remember things of the past that meant a lot to them. It can make people smile for no reason. You listen to a radio and one of the songs that you used to like was playing and it takes you back to the past and relive those memories in your mind. Sometimes it makes me think that if songs never existed, everything would be so bland and boring.

You listen to that one particular song over and over again because it reminds you of something. Your ex, your family, a journey you had back then, someone you lost, a moment in time where you say "those were the times. Ahh i miss those days" and while you are thinking about those memories you also know the ugly truth that you also need to move on with life.

New songs come up in the future and creates a new moment in your life where you collect new memories for the future.

Sometimes i wished life was like a music video. When you are down, a sad song automatically plays in your area.

Imagine your gf/bf has no choice but to break up. a sad song plays. you'd cherish the time you had with each other even more.

Or when you are happy. A happy song would make the moment even sweeter.

but thats just wishful thinking. I know im rambling haha. im just typing out my thoughts.

I love songs. especially love songs. Some people say I am a hopeless romantic. I think i am. I like to give flowers on a first date (which i learned that its not such a good thing for guys to do that. but more on that in the future), I like to treat women how a gentleman should, I like to be able to be there when they need me. dont get me wrong, I am not by any means a pro when it come to women. But id love to think someday. There is that one girl for me.

Maybe im not like most guys, I dont enjoy the constant adrenaline of hooking up with a girl and flirting for the first time. There would always be a question in mind, "will she at least not ignore me?" haha. Im more comfortable with having only one person to go to at the end of the day. To me, its quality of relationships that matters. Quantity... hmm not so much. Even if you can brag to people that you've had countless amount of partners in your life. But Id feel sorry for them, It shows how one could get bored easily. It also means you dont give enough effort to the other person. You just well, simply give up.

Anyways, back to songs. Every time i listen to a love song thats really meaningful, i feel that the person who sings these songs mustve felt the same way that i do.

Being single has its perks. More time to yourself. You save money.

But sometimes, you just wished you had someone to share the moments in your life.

Okay, enough random rambling.

Good night everyone,

Tib

Going back to the gym

Yeah. I just went to the gym for a cardio session. Feeling good. I still got a but of stamina left in me. My left knee feels a bit squeaky though.

I went to this gym near WYWY at Pandan area. Its kinda small, but i guess it will suffice.

there were only 3 working treadmills. There was this really pretty lady using one of them. She was using the one in the middle (since there was 3 of them only). I had a weird feeling about using the treadmill beside her. Didnt want her to think I was using it just to be near her. But I had to jog. Otherwise, i wouldve wasted my 6 bucks. She was very pretty. I had no choice but to notice her face, since infront of us was this huge mirror/wall thingy. Atleast there was another reason/motivation for me to work out.

I couldnt help but notice also this guy behind me working out his chest. I think he was the rippest guy at the place. Not big. but ripped. You know, like Rain from Ninja Assasin. Yes. Ripped. I wanted to see his workout was, you can never stop learning these workout routines when you're at the gym. His workout wasnt that bad. His form was perfect (sikit lagi macam aku) haha anyways, so there was the hottest girl at the gym and the rippest guy at the gym.

Why am I not surprised that these two people were together?

Oh well. Girls really do like guys who have ripped bodies i assume. Bodies with six pack where when you run water from their chest, the water drips down according to their muscle drainage system if you know what I mean.

Now im not sure what I want. Big buff Jason Stathan like Body. or Ripped in a gay Korean Boy Band body. hmmm

Women of Brunei, any thoughts?

oh. I found this song while i was youtube-ing. its really soothing and cute. Please enjoy :)

Im graduating.

Hello blog. i just felt like it would be wrong for me to not mention this in my blog. I know no one reads them. but i also know that 10 years from now i would still be able to read this and remember this day.

Today i found out the classifications to my degree. And Syukur Alhamdullilah, I got a Second Lower Degree. i know its not really that much of a hype, but im still thankful for this.

I would like to thank everyone who has been there throughout those years seeing me when i was down and was there to help me stand back up. I would like to thank my family for all their support and all the things that i need in order for me to graduate, especially my beloved mother. You are the best. I would also like to thank all my friends and colleagues who have helped me survived the toughest course there was. Lastly, i would like to thank you. You know who you are. I dont think i would be here without you, even when things between us are not really that well. you were still a part of my life back then. and you were great.

Thanks again everyone. And congratulations to everyone as well.

Tib

I just dont know what to feel

The best moments in my life was with you. but Fuck i really hate you right now. I cant decide what to feel about you. I wished i can feel nothing at all

New Cover Auburn - Perfect Two

You can be the peanut butter to my jelly
You can be the butterflies I feel in my belly
You can be the captain and I can be your first mate
You can be the chills that I feel on our first date

You can be the hero and I can be your side kick
You can be the tear that I cry if we ever split
You can be the rain from the cloud when it's stormin'
Or you can be the sun when it shines in the mornin'

[B-Sec:]
Don't know if I could ever be
Without you cause girl you complete me
And in time I know that we'll both see
That we're all we need

Cause you're the apple to my pie
You're the straw to my berry
You're the smoke to my high
And you're the one I wanna marry

[Hook:]
Cause your the one for me for me (for me)
And I'm the one for you for you (for you)
You take the both of us of us (of us)
And we're the perfect two

We're the perfect two
We're the perfect two
Baby me and you
We're the perfect two

[Verse 2:]
You can be the princess and I can be your prince
You can be the sweet tooth I can be the dentist
You can be the shoes and I can be the laces
You can be the heart that I spill on the pages

You can be the vodka and I can be the chaser
You can be the pencil and I can be the paper
You can be as cold as the winter weather
But I don't care as long as we're together

[B-Sec:]
Don't know if I could ever be
Without you cause girl you complete me
And in time I know that we'll both see
That we're all we need

Cause you're the apple to my pie
You're the straw to my berry
You're the smoke to my high
And you're the one I wanna marry

[Hook:]
Cause your the one for me for me (for me)
And I'm the one for you for you (for you)
You take the both of us of us (of us)
And we're the perfect two

We're the perfect two
We're the perfect two
Baby me and you
We're the perfect two

[Bridge:]
You know that I'll never doubt ya
And you know that I think about ya
And you know I can't live without ya

I love the way that you smile
And maybe in just a while
I can see me walk down the aisle

[B-Sec 1/2:]
Cause you're the apple to my pie
You're the straw to my berry
You're the smoke to my high
And you're the one I wanna marry

[Hook:]
Cause your the one for me for me (for me)
And I'm the one for you for you (for you)
You take the both of us of us (of us)
And we're the perfect two

We're the perfect two
We're the perfect two
Baby me and you
We're the perfect two

Good news

YEA BABY! IM GOING TO KUALA LUMPUR!! FOR FREEEEEEEEEEE

I know its not that big of a deal for many of you, but it is for me. its one of the best thing I've ever had since God knows when.

anyways im not just staying in KL. They're going to send me to Kinabatangan, Sabah for 5 days.. then back to KL for the rest of the trip. Cant wait to meet the other ASEAN delegates :D

I dont really know how Kinabatangan feels like. I googled it and this pic came up. not bad ey?

Tips from tip #1 - Dont fuck up your life