I used to be the person who types what he feels on his facebook updates. And i realize its not a good thing to do that. I learnt that the hard way. Recently ive seen some people write stuff like "I miss my ex, Im lonely now, I need you, Why did you leave me?" and so on and so forth. there are a few reasons why its a bad thing to do that. and i learnt it the hard way (Because i used to do it)
- Once you get over your ex. and you finally wana start dating, people would think that you're going to look for a rebound
- People actually delete you from their friend list because they think your status updates are annoying and they dont care jack shit abt how you
Anyways, here are some things people do when they break up
- Turn Crazy
- Become overly emotional
- Spend money like crazy
- Has the urge to be with someone of the opposite sex (or same sex?)
- Everything reminds them of their ex. Even forks (yes, the one people use to eat)
- Stalk the ex's facebook page
- Lack sleep
- Overdose of Exercise OR Eating (one or the other. Never the same time)
- Tries to hard on everything
- Sleep around
- Does all the things that their ex wont let them do when they were together, even if they know that its stupid to do it. Like consuming drugs
- Pray a lot
- Travel
- Tries overly too much to impress the ex
- Blocks the ex from their facebook page.
- Puts away all the things that reminds them of the ex in a small box and tuck it away somewhere not visible OR throw all of it away OR dumps all of it back to the ex
- when you finally meet someone new, you always seem to compare them with your ex. (He/She never did this before, S/he is exactly the same as my ex, This girl is way better then the ex) Dont kid, you know you do this without letting people know.
- You question yourself whether you are really over him/her.
- You question yourself, How do you get over someone?
- You play a lot of video games
- You seem to find new friends because your ex was the only person you spent your time with when you were together and you are left with jack shit
But in the end you find it deep inside you, you just want him/her to be happy. No matter who they end up with and when you see their smiles. You somehow find it in your heart to say "hey, She really is happy and im glad she is". You tried your best. And if he/she cant see that, trust me, they are not for you. Even if you feel deep down inside you and say "She was the one". Someone else is out there waiting for you.
This blog post is dedicated to the heartbroken people. Stay strong. Dont go and kill yourself. And dont do drugs. You might seem to think it is a good way to relief your heart ache. But its not. Trust me. You'll end up regretting it.
Life is too short for you to waste it on that. Be happy.
Cheer up you hopeless romantics out there. If you are truly able to love someone like you loved your ex. Someone will eventually do the same thing to you. And make sure that person receives the same thing again.
Cheers,
Tib
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