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I don’t understand why women keep complaining about how an asshole their boyfriend is when they break up, especially when everyone has told her that fact in the first place, ages ago.

It’s like, you see a couple. A decent girl with a jerk off looking of a boyfriend and you wonder why and how they ended up together. Sometimes it is even worst when you know for a fact that the boyfriend is an asshole who sleeps around. You try to warn the chick and try not to be a busy body at the same time because let’s be honest, No one likes a nosy guy. And of course she won’t believe you. Random guy versus boyfriend, who do you think she would choose?

It pisses you off even more when you go out with a girl who broke up months ago with an asshole of a guy. She tells you quite often of how an asshole he was to her just to end up going back with that boyfriend after wasting months of your life going out with her. “He cheated on me”, “He lied to me”, “He was never nice to me”, “He was not understanding” and so on and so forth are just some of the examples of how she would complain to you. You say to yourself, “hey I’m nothing like that guy, I appreciate her more than he could ever do” You think you might actually have a chance of a happy ever after story. You treat her real nice and respect her. You have fun. You spend time with her just to see at the end of the day, she would say “Don’t put me on a pedestal”. Yeap, it’s a f#cked up world. You can never understand women. After all that effort you put just to take care of a person you really care about, she ends up back with the asshole of a boyfriend (Not all the time, but most of the time).

I don’t understand why women would like to hurt themselves again and again. Dating assholes as hobbies and then sulk afterwards and finds a rebound, wastes an innocent guy’s time just to get themselves hurt again at the end.

Just give a guy a break. We see your facebook status’s “No body loves me” “I’m never too good enough am I?” “Lonely as hell. Misses him”. Well you are in luck. Here is something that you women should know and will solve all of your problem for the rest of your lives. I’ll put them in big block letters so its easier for you to read it.

YOU PICKED THE WRONG GUY!

This might come of a shock to you. Yes. You see when a guy is confident enough to come up to you and hit on you and you say. Wow, he is really confident and cool and what not. Chances are, you aren’t the first girl he’s ever done that too and possibly not the last girl he is ever gona do that too.

But you say, “but the other guys won’t even come up to us and strike up a good conversation”. Well for one thing, guys like that are scared shitless when it comes to talking to an attractive woman, or at least the ones that he is attracted to. Give that guy a break. Give him a shot. Chances are, he is a nice guy and hates hitting on girls because he is scared of what girls might think of his first impression. The thought of going up to a woman and actually spewing out a good set of sentence from his mouth might be nerve wrecking. He needs a pack at the back and say “you did good”. Give the dude a chance. If things doesn’t work out, at least you tried. But chances are, he would be the perfect guy for you.

Tips from Tib.

It's hard to plan out things when you are dealing things with people who are undecisive and not serious in committing on things which are quite important.

I've recently moved to KB because i got a job here. Naturally I would need to find a place to stay (rent). So i asked around if there were any people who needed to find a place to rent as well so we could share the cost.

So i found this group of guys. They said that they wanted to find a place too. So i joined with then. Found a nice place and rented it. But after some time i realized that they looked like they didnt want to commit. I cant explain why or how but it just didnt look like they were gona stay long at the place. Lucky i found another friend who was looking for a place. so i moved out. moved in to the other place and everything has been fine since.

fast forward to 2 months later. the group of guys who i lived with earlier are moving out... so ive heard. lucky i moved out early. otherwise itll be another pain in the ass which i need to handle.


Tib

things people do after they break up.

I used to be the person who types what he feels on his facebook updates. And i realize its not a good thing to do that. I learnt that the hard way. Recently ive seen some people write stuff like "I miss my ex, Im lonely now, I need you, Why did you leave me?" and so on and so forth. there are a few reasons why its a bad thing to do that. and i learnt it the hard way (Because i used to do it)

• Once you get over your ex. and you finally wana start dating, people would think that you're going to look for a rebound
• People actually delete you from their friend list because they think your status updates are annoying and they dont care jack shit abt how you

Anyways, here are some things people do when they break up

1. Turn Crazy
2. Become overly emotional
3. Spend money like crazy
4. Has the urge to be with someone of the opposite sex (or same sex?)
5. Everything reminds them of their ex. Even forks (yes, the one people use to eat)
6. Stalk the ex's facebook page
7. Lack sleep
8. Overdose of Exercise OR Eating (one or the other. Never the same time)
9. Tries to hard on everything
10. Sleep around
11. Does all the things that their ex wont let them do when they were together, even if they know that its stupid to do it. Like consuming drugs
12. Pray a lot
13. Travel
14. Tries overly too much to impress the ex
15. Blocks the ex from their facebook page.
16. Puts away all the things that reminds them of the ex in a small box and tuck it away somewhere not visible OR throw all of it away OR dumps all of it back to the ex
17. when you finally meet someone new, you always seem to compare them with your ex. (He/She never did this before, S/he is exactly the same as my ex, This girl is way better then the ex) Dont kid, you know you do this without letting people know.
18. You question yourself whether you are really over him/her.
19. You question yourself, How do you get over someone?
20. You play a lot of video games
21. You seem to find new friends because your ex was the only person you spent your time with when you were together and you are left with jack shit

But in the end you find it deep inside you, you just want him/her to be happy. No matter who they end up with and when you see their smiles. You somehow find it in your heart to say "hey, She really is happy and im glad she is". You tried your best. And if he/she cant see that, trust me, they are not for you. Even if you feel deep down inside you and say "She was the one". Someone else is out there waiting for you.

This blog post is dedicated to the heartbroken people. Stay strong. Dont go and kill yourself. And dont do drugs. You might seem to think it is a good way to relief your heart ache. But its not. Trust me. You'll end up regretting it.

Life is too short for you to waste it on that. Be happy.

Cheer up you hopeless romantics out there. If you are truly able to love someone like you loved your ex. Someone will eventually do the same thing to you. And make sure that person receives the same thing again.

Cheers,

Tib