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2011-09-12T18:11:00.000-07:00

I don’t understand why women keep complaining about how an asshole their boyfriend is when they break up, especially when everyone has told her that fact in the first place, ages ago.

It’s like, you see a couple. A decent girl with a jerk off looking of a boyfriend and you wonder why and how they ended up together. Sometimes it is even worst when you know for a fact that the boyfriend is an asshole who sleeps around. You try to warn the chick and try not to be a busy body at the same time because let’s be honest, No one likes a nosy guy. And of course she won’t believe you. Random guy versus boyfriend, who do you think she would choose?

It pisses you off even more when you go out with a girl who broke up months ago with an asshole of a guy. She tells you quite often of how an asshole he was to her just to end up going back with that boyfriend after wasting months of your life going out with her. “He cheated on me”, “He lied to me”, “He was never nice to me”, “He was not understanding” and so on and so forth are just some of the examples of how she would complain to you. You say to yourself, “hey I’m nothing like that guy, I appreciate her more than he could ever do” You think you might actually have a chance of a happy ever after story. You treat her real nice and respect her. You have fun. You spend time with her just to see at the end of the day, she would say “Don’t put me on a pedestal”. Yeap, it’s a f#cked up world. You can never understand women. After all that effort you put just to take care of a person you really care about, she ends up back with the asshole of a boyfriend (Not all the time, but most of the time).

I don’t understand why women would like to hurt themselves again and again. Dating assholes as hobbies and then sulk afterwards and finds a rebound, wastes an innocent guy’s time just to get themselves hurt again at the end.

Just give a guy a break. We see your facebook status’s “No body loves me” “I’m never too good enough am I?” “Lonely as hell. Misses him”. Well you are in luck. Here is something that you women should know and will solve all of your problem for the rest of your lives. I’ll put them in big block letters so its easier for you to read it.

YOU PICKED THE WRONG GUY!

This might come of a shock to you. Yes. You see when a guy is confident enough to come up to you and hit on you and you say. Wow, he is really confident and cool and what not. Chances are, you aren’t the first girl he’s ever done that too and possibly not the last girl he is ever gona do that too.

But you say, “but the other guys won’t even come up to us and strike up a good conversation”. Well for one thing, guys like that are scared shitless when it comes to talking to an attractive woman, or at least the ones that he is attracted to. Give that guy a break. Give him a shot. Chances are, he is a nice guy and hates hitting on girls because he is scared of what girls might think of his first impression. The thought of going up to a woman and actually spewing out a good set of sentence from his mouth might be nerve wrecking. He needs a pack at the back and say “you did good”. Give the dude a chance. If things doesn’t work out, at least you tried. But chances are, he would be the perfect guy for you.

Tips from Tib.

2011-09-08T17:35:00.000-07:00

It's hard to plan out things when you are dealing things with people who are undecisive and not serious in committing on things which are quite important.

I've recently moved to KB because i got a job here. Naturally I would need to find a place to stay (rent). So i asked around if there were any people who needed to find a place to rent as well so we could share the cost.

So i found this group of guys. They said that they wanted to find a place too. So i joined with then. Found a nice place and rented it. But after some time i realized that they looked like they didnt want to commit. I cant explain why or how but it just didnt look like they were gona stay long at the place. Lucky i found another friend who was looking for a place. so i moved out. moved in to the other place and everything has been fine since.

fast forward to 2 months later. the group of guys who i lived with earlier are moving out... so ive heard. lucky i moved out early. otherwise itll be another pain in the ass which i need to handle.

Tib

things people do after they break up.

2011-09-05T11:11:00.000-07:00

I used to be the person who types what he feels on his facebook updates. And i realize its not a good thing to do that. I learnt that the hard way. Recently ive seen some people write stuff like "I miss my ex, Im lonely now, I need you, Why did you leave me?" and so on and so forth. there are a few reasons why its a bad thing to do that. and i learnt it the hard way (Because i used to do it)

Once you get over your ex. and you finally wana start dating, people would think that you're going to look for a rebound
People actually delete you from their friend list because they think your status updates are annoying and they dont care jack shit abt how you

Anyways, here are some things people do when they break up

Turn Crazy
Become overly emotional
Spend money like crazy
Has the urge to be with someone of the opposite sex (or same sex?)
Everything reminds them of their ex. Even forks (yes, the one people use to eat)
Stalk the ex's facebook page
Lack sleep
Overdose of Exercise OR Eating (one or the other. Never the same time)
Tries to hard on everything
Sleep around
Does all the things that their ex wont let them do when they were together, even if they know that its stupid to do it. Like consuming drugs
Pray a lot
Travel
Tries overly too much to impress the ex
Blocks the ex from their facebook page.
Puts away all the things that reminds them of the ex in a small box and tuck it away somewhere not visible OR throw all of it away OR dumps all of it back to the ex
when you finally meet someone new, you always seem to compare them with your ex. (He/She never did this before, S/he is exactly the same as my ex, This girl is way better then the ex) Dont kid, you know you do this without letting people know.
You question yourself whether you are really over him/her.
You question yourself, How do you get over someone?
You play a lot of video games
You seem to find new friends because your ex was the only person you spent your time with when you were together and you are left with jack shit

But in the end you find it deep inside you, you just want him/her to be happy. No matter who they end up with and when you see their smiles. You somehow find it in your heart to say "hey, She really is happy and im glad she is". You tried your best. And if he/she cant see that, trust me, they are not for you. Even if you feel deep down inside you and say "She was the one". Someone else is out there waiting for you.

This blog post is dedicated to the heartbroken people. Stay strong. Dont go and kill yourself. And dont do drugs. You might seem to think it is a good way to relief your heart ache. But its not. Trust me. You'll end up regretting it.

Life is too short for you to waste it on that. Be happy.

Cheer up you hopeless romantics out there. If you are truly able to love someone like you loved your ex. Someone will eventually do the same thing to you. And make sure that person receives the same thing again.

Cheers,

Tib

songs and rambles

2011-08-23T10:12:00.000-07:00

I love listening to songs. Especially those which have lyrics that actually make sense.

I mean songs nowadays are mostly about partying, sex, pussies, etc. You catch my drift. If you dont realize it. take example, Far East Movemont, Lady Gaga, Ke$ha, Black Eyed Peas and most hip hop songs. Take a good listen and its all songs about getting drunk.

Anyways, back to songs that actually mean something. Ever felt that you are feeling down? Suddenly a song plays in your mind and you say "hey, thats exactly me" and you start to fall in love with that song even though its just a mediocre song. Well i have, countless of times.

Sometimes i feel songs can comfort people when they are sad. Make people smile and make them remember things of the past that meant a lot to them. It can make people smile for no reason. You listen to a radio and one of the songs that you used to like was playing and it takes you back to the past and relive those memories in your mind. Sometimes it makes me think that if songs never existed, everything would be so bland and boring.

You listen to that one particular song over and over again because it reminds you of something. Your ex, your family, a journey you had back then, someone you lost, a moment in time where you say "those were the times. Ahh i miss those days" and while you are thinking about those memories you also know the ugly truth that you also need to move on with life.

New songs come up in the future and creates a new moment in your life where you collect new memories for the future.

Sometimes i wished life was like a music video. When you are down, a sad song automatically plays in your area.

Imagine your gf/bf has no choice but to break up. a sad song plays. you'd cherish the time you had with each other even more.

Or when you are happy. A happy song would make the moment even sweeter.

but thats just wishful thinking. I know im rambling haha. im just typing out my thoughts.

I love songs. especially love songs. Some people say I am a hopeless romantic. I think i am. I like to give flowers on a first date (which i learned that its not such a good thing for guys to do that. but more on that in the future), I like to treat women how a gentleman should, I like to be able to be there when they need me. dont get me wrong, I am not by any means a pro when it come to women. But id love to think someday. There is that one girl for me.

Maybe im not like most guys, I dont enjoy the constant adrenaline of hooking up with a girl and flirting for the first time. There would always be a question in mind, "will she at least not ignore me?" haha. Im more comfortable with having only one person to go to at the end of the day. To me, its quality of relationships that matters. Quantity... hmm not so much. Even if you can brag to people that you've had countless amount of partners in your life. But Id feel sorry for them, It shows how one could get bored easily. It also means you dont give enough effort to the other person. You just well, simply give up.

Anyways, back to songs. Every time i listen to a love song thats really meaningful, i feel that the person who sings these songs mustve felt the same way that i do.

Being single has its perks. More time to yourself. You save money.

But sometimes, you just wished you had someone to share the moments in your life.

Okay, enough random rambling.

Good night everyone,

Tib

Going back to the gym

2011-08-08T10:32:00.000-07:00

Yeah. I just went to the gym for a cardio session. Feeling good. I still got a but of stamina left in me. My left knee feels a bit squeaky though.

I went to this gym near WYWY at Pandan area. Its kinda small, but i guess it will suffice.

there were only 3 working treadmills. There was this really pretty lady using one of them. She was using the one in the middle (since there was 3 of them only). I had a weird feeling about using the treadmill beside her. Didnt want her to think I was using it just to be near her. But I had to jog. Otherwise, i wouldve wasted my 6 bucks. She was very pretty. I had no choice but to notice her face, since infront of us was this huge mirror/wall thingy. Atleast there was another reason/motivation for me to work out.

I couldnt help but notice also this guy behind me working out his chest. I think he was the rippest guy at the place. Not big. but ripped. You know, like Rain from Ninja Assasin. Yes. Ripped. I wanted to see his workout was, you can never stop learning these workout routines when you're at the gym. His workout wasnt that bad. His form was perfect (sikit lagi macam aku) haha anyways, so there was the hottest girl at the gym and the rippest guy at the gym.

Why am I not surprised that these two people were together?

Oh well. Girls really do like guys who have ripped bodies i assume. Bodies with six pack where when you run water from their chest, the water drips down according to their muscle drainage system if you know what I mean.

Now im not sure what I want. Big buff Jason Stathan like Body. or Ripped in a gay Korean Boy Band body. hmmm

Women of Brunei, any thoughts?

oh. I found this song while i was youtube-ing. its really soothing and cute. Please enjoy :)

Im graduating.

2010-07-13T11:54:00.000-07:00

Hello blog. i just felt like it would be wrong for me to not mention this in my blog. I know no one reads them. but i also know that 10 years from now i would still be able to read this and remember this day.

Today i found out the classifications to my degree. And Syukur Alhamdullilah, I got a Second Lower Degree. i know its not really that much of a hype, but im still thankful for this.

I would like to thank everyone who has been there throughout those years seeing me when i was down and was there to help me stand back up. I would like to thank my family for all their support and all the things that i need in order for me to graduate, especially my beloved mother. You are the best. I would also like to thank all my friends and colleagues who have helped me survived the toughest course there was. Lastly, i would like to thank you. You know who you are. I dont think i would be here without you, even when things between us are not really that well. you were still a part of my life back then. and you were great.

Thanks again everyone. And congratulations to everyone as well.

Tib

I just dont know what to feel

2010-06-13T04:58:00.000-07:00

The best moments in my life was with you. but Fuck i really hate you right now. I cant decide what to feel about you. I wished i can feel nothing at all

New Cover Auburn - Perfect Two

2010-05-31T10:05:00.000-07:00

You can be the peanut butter to my jelly
You can be the butterflies I feel in my belly
You can be the captain and I can be your first mate
You can be the chills that I feel on our first date

You can be the hero and I can be your side kick
You can be the tear that I cry if we ever split
You can be the rain from the cloud when it's stormin'
Or you can be the sun when it shines in the mornin'

[B-Sec:]
Don't know if I could ever be
Without you cause girl you complete me
And in time I know that we'll both see
That we're all we need

Cause you're the apple to my pie
You're the straw to my berry
You're the smoke to my high
And you're the one I wanna marry

[Hook:]
Cause your the one for me for me (for me)
And I'm the one for you for you (for you)
You take the both of us of us (of us)
And we're the perfect two

We're the perfect two
We're the perfect two
Baby me and you
We're the perfect two

[Verse 2:]
You can be the princess and I can be your prince
You can be the sweet tooth I can be the dentist
You can be the shoes and I can be the laces
You can be the heart that I spill on the pages

You can be the vodka and I can be the chaser
You can be the pencil and I can be the paper
You can be as cold as the winter weather
But I don't care as long as we're together

[B-Sec:]
Don't know if I could ever be
Without you cause girl you complete me
And in time I know that we'll both see
That we're all we need

Cause you're the apple to my pie
You're the straw to my berry
You're the smoke to my high
And you're the one I wanna marry

[Hook:]
Cause your the one for me for me (for me)
And I'm the one for you for you (for you)
You take the both of us of us (of us)
And we're the perfect two

We're the perfect two
We're the perfect two
Baby me and you
We're the perfect two

[Bridge:]
You know that I'll never doubt ya
And you know that I think about ya
And you know I can't live without ya

I love the way that you smile
And maybe in just a while
I can see me walk down the aisle

[B-Sec 1/2:]
Cause you're the apple to my pie
You're the straw to my berry
You're the smoke to my high
And you're the one I wanna marry

[Hook:]
Cause your the one for me for me (for me)
And I'm the one for you for you (for you)
You take the both of us of us (of us)
And we're the perfect two

We're the perfect two
We're the perfect two
Baby me and you
We're the perfect two

Good news

2010-04-15T02:16:00.000-07:00

YEA BABY! IM GOING TO KUALA LUMPUR!! FOR FREEEEEEEEEEE

I know its not that big of a deal for many of you, but it is for me. its one of the best thing I've ever had since God knows when.

anyways im not just staying in KL. They're going to send me to Kinabatangan, Sabah for 5 days.. then back to KL for the rest of the trip. Cant wait to meet the other ASEAN delegates :D

I dont really know how Kinabatangan feels like. I googled it and this pic came up. not bad ey?

Tips from tip #1 - Dont fuck up your life

Yes im blogging.

2010-03-29T13:07:00.000-07:00

Feel like i havent blog in ages. im sorry peeps. i just dont have any interesting things to talk about in this blog of mine.

last week i had a whole week for my self. no working, no getting scolded or criticized. just me and the gang hanging out and one night of party-ing.

It was a good week i guess. not that i was expecting more than that. but for no particular reason. im kinda depressed again now.

some things in life are just not perfect. Everybody says some day i will find the thing that ive been searching for. but so far... there is nothing. i guess ill just have to wait.

I suddenly miss hearing your voice. If only u talked to me

Whatever

2009-12-13T01:56:00.000-08:00

My auntie from Bintulu is staying over at my place... until Abg Azmi's wedding. so... i have to move back to my old room cus she is using my current one. bummer.. ill be away from Sasha for a while. Dont worry baby. ill still come by and see u once in a while.

Songs for you (original)

2009-12-03T19:17:00.000-08:00

What im going through

2009-12-03T12:53:00.000-08:00

Sadness, Depression, Stress, Frustration, Heartbreak, Down, Disappointment, Unlucky, Lonely.

Im trying to be happy tho.. but so far i end up thinking of the reasons why i was not happy.

Im confused of how can people's behavior is the exact opposite of what they used to say they wont be and how people can change drastically. How they disregard promises they said they would keep and act like it wont really matter. How they say that they dont care certain things when it used to be so important to them. How little things used to mean so much to them and now it doesnt really matter. How they cared so much for everything and now care only for themselves. Its a pity really. they were wonderful people to be with. Now... they think they're too good for other people. They used to be so sincere, now they're all bunch of people with fake emotions cus thats their comfort zone.

I dont wish to feel this way. Im a nice person... really i am. I care too much. Maybe i should not be. im going to give up trying cus i know thats what they really want. I mean why should i when no one cares about me? heh.. i know.. im sad huh? (anyone care to save me?) I tried to make things better but every time i do that, there is always something that you can do to fuck it up. what have i ever done to deserve this crap? Maybe i should just stay away. Maybe i should really just be alone... maybe thats my new comfort zone.

If im alone, there wont be anyone to hurt my feelings yeah? There wont be anyone to ruin my smile.

But then... there wont be people to smile with

i am too nice

2009-11-30T12:07:00.000-08:00

Too nice to other people that i forgot to be nice to myself.

i need a lucky break.

life pretty much sucks right now.

i thought i had something.. maybe i made myself to believe that.

you are more than what you say you are.

2009-11-29T17:23:00.001-08:00

How do i tell someone that i think that she is a wonderful person without scaring her away?

Through the trees by Low Shoulder Cover

2009-11-29T13:00:00.000-08:00

Sigh

2009-11-26T01:39:00.001-08:00

Too many serious stuff happening today. I need my daily dose of you

Exam season starts

2009-11-22T11:35:00.000-08:00

I hate exams... i cant enjoy life. personally i think exams are biased and dumb. Everyone studies for the exams and the minute they go out of the exam hall, they would forget everything. I vote we should use 100% on our coursework to determine our grade! that way everyone works hard on their projects. And would need to understand it themselves :)

Some people are completely dumb in class but perform extra ordinary on exams. So in sense, in the real life... they would be completely dumb until they are being assessed. thats not productive at all dont you think?

hmmmmm

i want exams to be over as soon as possible so i can go out more :)

and... hehe

oh and listen to Boys Like Girls Duet with Taylor Swift - Two is better than one

its awesome http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fg8nEmTx7EI

So many games!!

2009-11-17T22:00:00.000-08:00

Why do they launch all the great games when u are about to have your exams??

Sigh.... Im playing Call of Duty Modern Warfare 2 and its effing awesome!

and just finished downloading Dragon Age: Origins... my hands are itching to play them... but my mind tells me to study... noooo

Tired

2009-11-08T22:15:00.000-08:00

Sigh~ The weekend was quite hectic indeed.

I got an assignment and test that i had to prepare and finish. Lucky i got everything on time... i know it wont be an A grade material, but i guess its better than flunking it.

I went to the Gala Night. got the ups and downs of the event. but i was more satisfied than being disappointed. Sigh~ i wish there was someone to talk with about things happening in my life. i guess this blog will have to do for now:)

come out, come out wherever you are hehe. i didnt get to ask for ur number :p

Gala Night

2009-11-07T09:29:00.000-08:00

Went to UBD Gala night.. it was great (i guess).

Too bad i didnt have a date that night.. it would be great.. but i guess it wasnt that Bad.. at least i had fun :D

Blogspot seems to dont want me to upload the pics.. (its being a bitch!)

Go to my FB for pics :)

My video on youtube

2009-11-06T03:47:00.000-08:00

Gala Night

2009-11-04T06:32:00.000-08:00

Decided to go to the Gala Night. I hope She says yes and i hope i can make a mask in time

i might use this tho.. hmm

Do i look cool?

Wondergirls - Nobody Cover Remix

2009-10-29T18:25:00.000-07:00

I hope u guys enjoy it :D

i made a cover of wondergirls... i wrote the verses myself and took the chorus from the actual song :D

oh and this video is a song that might just be the saddest song in the entire world, but the nicest.

Losing weight

2009-10-29T12:09:00.000-07:00

After a while of controlling my meal and exercising at least twice a week i finally saw improvement on my weight. I lost around 5-6 Kg. I now weight 79Kg. phiew... now to appoint another goal... 65Kg. Wish me luck

2009-10-28T12:19:00.000-07:00

Why is it that hard?

wish i know what you really feel. I hope you are doing fine

Boring kah blog ku ani?

2009-10-20T12:18:00.000-07:00

Shud i put up more pictures? they say a picture is worth a thousand words... hmmmm

but i never have time to take pictures... damn..

oh.. i think i have a fan.... not sure yet tho.. probly my friends playing pranks on me.. proble not.. haha

They say her name is 'feena'... well thanks for being a fan? haha ive never experience this before.. sorry if my reaction is weird.

Rap Pacah Lyrics

2009-10-19T03:28:00.000-07:00

This is the lyrics to the previous post Rap Pacah.

My baby boo my love is true

its only for you,

you're the one and only my lovely,

girl and my boo, who wont want you with your smile

your sexy style, legs longer than Nile.

Your beauty people wont deny, this aint no lie.

Neither the world, the moon nor the sky can explain my love for girl

even if they cry.

When you're with another man, i feel my heart is gonna bend.

i know for you it's nuthin, but baby i just cudnt stand.

The way you look at him, the way he holds you, damn.

God please let me be that man and make her understand

God, God, show your might, you know that its right.

Make her by my side.

Cinta maafkan aku melukaimu.

Tak sengaja ku menyakitimu kekasihku.

TEEHEE :D

Two old songs i made years back

2009-10-18T10:56:00.000-07:00

UBD's Got Talent Audition

2009-10-14T11:46:00.000-07:00

i hope i get through the next round. ill get to sing more of my songs :)

Busy week ahead

2009-10-13T00:34:00.000-07:00

There lotsa things going on in my life. If only there was someone to share i with :(

haha forget the last part.. so anyways. these are some of the things i need to be doing.

14/10/09 - MOT TESL Assignment due (which i have not even started)

- UBD's Got Talent Competition. (I hope people come and watch and support me)

21/10/09 - TESL presentation

31/10/09 - Guidance & Counseling Assignment due

1/11/09 - IT in Teaching Assignment due

Someone help me?

One day i will own you

2009-10-10T08:57:00.001-07:00

Audi RS 4

*saliva dropping*

Whats with shuffling?

2009-10-09T12:12:00.000-07:00

I just dont get it... you drag your feet, stomp it around and you think its cool? kids nowadays.. and of all the places... di belakang mall arah dapan KFC. tsk tsk tsk... delinquents indeed. When i was their age i was practically Break dancing! haha nada lah.. id break my neck if i did that... well.. i still think parents should not just let their kids jump around bare feet behind the mall for goodness' sake.

and Mr. Pizza! you suck.. i will never eat there again!

adakah tulis dua buting price.. and yang font basar murah.. and font damit yang mahal.. and i have no freaking idea what the two prices are for. makanan nya nda jua berapa. pui~

New Gadgets for Sasha

2009-10-05T07:15:00.000-07:00

If you guys are wondering who Sasha is. She is my brand new Desktop. She is so pretty :)

I love her so much...

I bought a Remote control for her. Its a Wired Xbox 360 controller. Normally it would cast me $70, but i was in luck.. EGM sold it for $55... kami tawari.. jadi $50 :DDD

i also bought the new Fifa 10. Now i can kick ass!

A new beginning

2009-10-04T04:20:00.000-07:00

A new blog.

Yes, the old one was too painful to read :)

so here is to a new beginning :D

Thanks for being the first one to follow my blog sarah or should i call u rafika instead?

I dont aim on making this blog cute or pretty.. its going to be simple... yes... simplicity.. no need to be crazy or take life to the fullest crap. Being simple is not that bad after all. Once you learn how to be satisfied with what you have. at least you'll be happy. Or else.. u wont ever feel satisfied, cus u always want more in life.

welcome to simplicitykieno. i hope you enjoy reading it.

Test

2009-10-03T14:04:00.000-07:00

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